To my saved, sanctified and holy fellow ladies, I have a bone to pick with you. I understand you love the Lord with all your heart and you don't care about who is and who isn't looking at you, but PULEEZE put yourself together like you live somewhere, Mr.brush and Mrs.comb never did anything to hurt nobody!
I know that you may not have a lot of money, maybe you can't afford to go to the hairstylist and get your hair fried, died and layed to the side, but in your best efforts please look like Jesus changed your life for the better. If you can't see a stylist, but you got some skills, work it out or slap a cute wig on, and call it a DAY. It makes me sad to see sisters walking around toting their Bible, but looking a raggedy mess. I also understand our comfortable days(you don't have to look like you just stepped out of Vogue everyday) but make an effort to look presentable the best way you can. We are a representation of Christ and I know you all are sweethearts deep down inside, but unfortunately our human eyes see the outward appearance first, and not that precious little heart of yours. Looking good makes you feel confident, and we are ALL beautiful, perfectly crafted in the hands of God. Some of us unfortunately just haven't realized it yet.
For those of you who been praying for a husband, I'm about to get on you worse. C'mon girl, are you serious? Stop fooling yourself thinking, "Well God gonna make him see me for who I am inside" sorry baby, but NO! If you hadn't noticed in the Bible almost everytime a man is going to marry a woman they talk about how she LOOKS.... Don't believe me? read Esther 2:7-9 , Ruth 3:3, Genesis 29:17 just to name a few. Again, we are ALL beautiful, and I use these examples to illustrate that you have to take care of yourself as a woman and look your best. Remember not every guy likes the same thing, and your unique beauty (well maintained) will catch that right man's attention. If the barn needs painting, slap some paint on it (don't over do it), if you're thick and faboulous wear it well, but make sure you are healthy, and if your hair needs a little help, buy some gel and a ponytail weave and slap it in there.
Overall make sure when you step in the room you make a statement, (like the Jergens commerical) don't say "I am here, but say HERE I AM" .......just a word of advice
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